Q&A

Hello Mr Trigger,
your posts adn threads are gems on this forum, your words are very wise and mature..cheers for sharing your knoweldge.
My question today is :
I know this girl who i ran attraction, comfort and seduction on her physically escalated except the kiss and the f close....haven't fallen in the friend zone though as she tries everyday to make me jealous by chatting to an AFC guy at work and it's so obvious that she is forcing it and i just keep ignoring her....the thing is I want to reconnect with her and this time fucking escalate to the top. what,s the best way to get her back since there is a huge tension between us ??????

Thanks in advance for answering
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Well first off, you can't do much at work except be a very outstanding employee. Okay, honestly, if this wasn't a perfect world, what I would do on a whim would build a huge social circle with my employees and tell everyone that she's a ho. Better yet, just talk about her. I was just kidding with the whole calling her a ho thing.

I don't know the first thing about attracting an employee. I really don't. It's something that has to do with body language and being DHV'd by other people.

Y'know what scratch all that. (This is how my brain works)

Whatever you think seduction is, is wrong. The seduction term by the MM complex, is everything beyond kissing. Everything from getting naked in bed, and sex and more sex, that's seduction. You sir, are not even close.

You are stuck in attraction.

How do you know, because the girl that you are talking about is still in push pull technique area by trying to make you jealous. She's still trying to convey that she is better than you, and right now she is.

(Lemme take a few minutes to think about what you can do)

So first off, you DO want to ignore the fact that she's flirting with AFC bob over there, but what you don't want to do is ignore her. Once you do that, you convey that you're frustrated. Although, you do want to start conversation with her, make sure the conversation is about you. I know cruel, but if you think about it, a lot of people are just waiting for their turn in a conversation.

Now, since you did a bunch of things, you need to start building stuff along the lines of values.

Like tell her about how you revisited grandma for the weekend and how you’ve started noticing a need to be there for family. As if people as a whole, aren’t mature enough to appreciate their family when they’re younger, but now that we’re older were mature enough to provide them our sensible kindness.
Boom attraction switch!

Tell her about the classes your thinking about taking in the fall semester. Or if you’re thinking about going to college. Talk about classes you’d like to take and their pros, not their cons. If she agrees or recommends a class, say, that sounds cool, and that you might have to try it out.
Intellegence. Boom attraction switch.

This is where, no matter what, talking to a wide variety of girls will not only help your game, it’ll also help the set that you’re in. Tell her about the girls that are in line to sit on your dick (I don’t use this tone like ever, I’m just using it as a sales pitch, not that I’m selling anything, I’m just making it more appealing so you’ll build a more vibrant self confidence)
Convey to her that other women are waiting and that you can’t wait forever.
Boom attraction switch.

Tell her your friends are trying to hook you up.
Social intuition. Boom attraction switch.

Tell her that the girl’s a sweet girl, but you need a girl that you could argue with. Tell her that you need a girl you can argue with.
Tell her that there’s a girl that been trying to talk to you for awhile, but she’s one of those super hot chicks that gets whatever she wants all the time.

This could humble her.


Talk about how you're planning to go backpacking in New Zealand with as little money as possible and how your friends tell you you could work in apple fields and how you yearn for adventure.

Then you could scrape that all up, build up your confidence, make her feel like she's in the reach of a real man. Then tell her that when you first met her, you thought she was really into herself and only talked about things she liked, and that you suddenly realize that she's a great listener, and that she has a great balance between a sense of humor and sophistication. Then you drop the end all to take all line. "You're really different from a lot of women, you don't find that combination too often."

AND BOOM! You've just accomplished qualification.

From that point you've basically pointed out that you could or want to fall madly in love with her, and from this point on, no matter what you do, you can't help getting close to her and keeping that sacred bond and connection. If you ask for her number, if you ask her out, assuming you know how to ask someone out, it'll all be in good faith. It'll all be because you can't help yourself, and she'll understand that. (Don't ask her out right away, let the tension build up even more, and if she shows you IOI's your clear for a number close, but if not, you've just given her a compliment that'll blow her mind but maybe it's just came out flat)

And if she rejects you, you did do everything perfectly. She probably thinks your butt ugly, and you have to move on. No offense.

Remember, or hint; the proper way to ask a girl out is to ask if she wants to hang out, not go on a date. Then you go into frame shifting, and bouncing, and logistics, where you can actually pull out a lot more good valuable kino, which is waaaay before seduction. So trust me, you got a ways to go kid, before you can actually say that you're in seduction with anyone.

Another thing you have to look into is that this whole work thing is an obstacle you have to overcome. How? I don't know. And you got to make sure you're cool with your employees build a rapport. Listen to them attentively, don't be a douche and just talk about yourself all the time.

that's it for now, feel free to ask.

-Trig